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Shred Sisters

October 2024 – Grove Atlantic

Longlisted for The Center for Fiction Prize for First Novel

The New York TimesA 64-Year-Old Literary Agent and TikTok Star Adds ‘Novelist’ to Her Résumé

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Debutible, 10 Noteworthy Debuts to Read this October

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Katie Couric Media, Best Books About Sisters

 
The New York Times
“Lots of ambitious books announce themselves; this one doesn’t need to. The first novel by Betsy Lerner forgoes all fanfare and conceit as it refines a 20-year coming-of-age into an elegant thread of taut, perfectly paced milestones. The prose is controlled, but neither virtuosic nor spare; the plot, enticing but neither Dickensian nor minimalist. Decidedly un-trendy, crescendo-less and restrained, this tragicomic family saga is a Bach prelude to the Rachmaninoff of a writer like Jonathan Franzen.” 
 
The Washington Post
“Smart, funny and moving . . .this bright, clean, gallivanting story rewards an open mind and heart with crisp prose, fresh plot turns and dimensional dishy portraits we can instantly recognize. Amy’s voice — a perfect amalgam of weary cynicism, jealousy, angsty and steady, painful love — wins us instantly. Myriad scenes will make you want to both howl and laugh for their authentic, helpless absurdity. Lerner delivers a scrappy mélange of Mel Brooks and Sylvia Plath.”
 
The Boston Globe
“Drama, disappointment, and despair thread throughout this bittersweet saga, but empathy, humor, and the narrator’s sharp yet loving powers of observation make it a joy to read. Exquisitely written, featuring pitch-perfect wit, crackling dialogue, and deep insight into the excruciating pain of being in a perpetual awkward phase…It must also be noted that in an era when so much contemporary fiction is dystopic, Lerner’s debut recalls simpler times, though minus sentimentality or nostalgia. In Amy and Ollie, Lerner has given us a love story for the ages.”
 
The Financial Times
“Amy and Ollie are the warring siblings in literary agent Betsy Lerner’s accomplished first novel Shred  Sisters …A poignantly engrossing tale for anyone caught in the webs of sibling rivalry.”
 
Kirkus, starred review
“The younger of two siblings grows up the shadow of her beautiful, reckless, mentally ill sister. ‘Here are the ways I could start this story,’ Amy Shred says, offering three choices in a brief prologue to memoirist and literary agent Lerner’s debut novel. The story unfolds with the verisimilitude of a memoir: Amy’s nuanced relationships with her mother, her father, and her partners are all utterly convincing and relatable. A seamlessly constructed and absorbing fictional world, full of insight about how families work.”
 
The Sydney Morning Herald
[Shred Sisters] . . . unfolds over decades with great economy and incisive observation of both the inextricable bond of sorority between the sisters, and the terrible suffering that can be inflicted on us by those we love.  Lerner is loath to waste a single word, and the characterisation’s more intensely rendered for that. It’s a tragicomic, wise, emotionally complicated domestic novel that also immerses the reader in the shortcomings of period psychiatry.
 
 
Publishers Weekly
“Lerner’s skilled approach to narrative lies in subtly depicting the destigmatizing of mental illness and the evolution of treatment during the period from the sisters’ childhood in the 1970s through the 1990s. Lerner’s portrayal of Amy’s five-year course of therapy is particularly rewarding, as Amy explores the limits and strengths of her bond with Olivia. The result is a quietly lovely and ultimately hopeful chronicle of a complicated family.” 
 
People Magazine 
“Beautiful daredevil Olivia is the star of the Shred family, but as she goes off the rails, her parents and younger sister Amy struggle for balance. As told by Amy—the smart, quiet one—over two decades, this heartfelt novel reveals the power of the siblings bond to shape our lives.”
 
Good Housekeeping
“A sensitive exploration of loving someone with mental health issues, with characters you’ll fall for.”
 
Daily Mail 
“Lerner… is incapable of writing an unnecessary sentence.”
 
Booklist
“The perfectly named Shred Sisters’ ups and downs are wrenching and felicitous, while Amy is a triumph of clashing emotions, self-sabotage and self-preservation, anguish, loyalty, and love. Aerodynamic prose, psychological acuity, tangy wit, knotty family dynamics, and heady twists and turns make for an exhilarating read.”
 
Jewish Book Council
“Lern­er’s sharp sto­ry­telling places her in the canon of Nora Ephron and Judy Blume. Shred Sis­ters is an hon­est, inti­mate, and heart­felt med­i­ta­tion on the ways our tough­est loves shape, break, and rebuild us.”
 
Katie Couric Media
“In this incisive, sharp novel, Amy Shred’s life is shaped by the unpredictable moods of her sister Ollie. Set over two decades, the book follows Amy and Ollie as they each come of age and try to find their place in the world. It’s a moving, keenly observed book about mental health, sisterhood, and family at large.”
 

“Shred Sisters is a brilliantly written, emotionally gripping saga that delves into the complexity of sisterhood, mental health, and resilience. Spanning decades, this utterly engrossing novel asks readers many profound and pressing questions: Can we fully know the ones we love? Does love always require self-sacrifice? Can we understand ourselves without understanding our family? One of the best books I’ve read in years.” –Chloé Cooper Jones, author of Easy Beauty.

“Betsy Lerner articulates moments I have observed but never put into words, and I both laughed out loud and was deeply moved. A brilliant novel.” —Alice Elliott Dark, author of Fellowship Point

“Wise to the woe and wonder of families and the bedeviling forces that shape them, Betsy Lerner’s masterful new novel, Shred Sisters, delivers you through grief and devastation toward tremulous, exquisite hope.”  -Bill Clegg, author of Did You Ever Have a Family

“A cocktail of raw poetry, needle sharp insights, and propulsive, almost projectile honesty. I can’t get over how deftly it pivots from funny to mean to vulnerable to wise, often on a single page. Lerner explores the contours of complicated relationships with an intoxicating ferocity that – we come to realize – amounts to no less than an act of love.” —Leah Hager Cohen, author of Strangers and Cousins and To & Fro

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I’d love to start a conversation. Share your sister stories here. Are you an Amy or an Ollie?

15 responses to “Shred Sisters”

  1.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Betsy! I’m neither an Amy nor an Ollie but I am a huge fan of Shred Sisters – just finished it. Brava!! Please be in touch.

    Best,

    Robin Kall

    robin@robinkall.com

    1. betsylerner Avatar
      betsylerner

      Thank you for reading!

  2. karenadria Avatar

    Betsy,

    Loved the Virtual “Book Club,” and I finally got on Tik Tok to listen to you. I followed your blog, but never had the inclination to do any writing from the prompts. Perhaps I should start.

    Can’t wait to see the movie based on you! Good luck on getting your screen play produced. It’s inevitable.

    I look forward to your next book of fiction, and I will go back and read your other books.

    Best Wishes,

    Karen Deutsch

    1. betsylerner Avatar
      betsylerner

      Thank you so much.

  3.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    I’m an Ollie. I have a sister who is 8 years older than me & who just turned 80. She was everything my parents wanted, I the one who gave my family grief & concern. All through my childhood teachers, aunts & friends told me they couldn’t believe we came from the same parents, but honestly I’m way more interesting & my tumultuous life greatly entertained me & those who watched it unfold. All while my sister is still sitting on her hands being good.

    So glad I was gifted your book by a friend who’d just read it & wanted my opinion. I sent her a text this morning.

    Donna

    1. betsylerner Avatar
      betsylerner

      I usually hear from the Amys of the world so thank you for this and the note. (I am Ollie and Amy.)

  4. betsylerner Avatar
    betsylerner

    Thanks so much for the note. xo

  5.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    haven’t read yet, with 2 younger sisters and the prevelance of opinions on the mental health of the nation these days, am considering buying 3 copies. fyi I am approaching middle of 8th decade. Youngest sister is avid reader and middle sister not so much. Always share books, can’t save them anymore as there are too heavy to move & prefer to downsize b4 I either die or have to downsize and relocate. Rambling. Saw author on Saturday morning news program. Will login after reading.

  6.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Almost finished Shed Sisters. Remarkably true to life. Well written and expertly paced. I think we’ve all met Ollie’s in our lives – this examines this behavior through the lens of mental illness and makes it much easier to understand.

    1. betsylerner Avatar
      betsylerner

      Very much appreciate this comment. I wrote it from the inside out and have also studied bi polar illness from the poets to the neurologists. Hope it rings true.

  7.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    PS: When will you be doing another virtual book club on Zoom for Shred Sisters?

  8.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    just finished reading Shred sisters. I didn’t want it to end. Please promise that you will write more books. You are a gifted writer and storyteller. This was the best book I’ve read in years.

  9. betsylerner Avatar
    betsylerner

    oh my goodness – THANK YOU!!

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    Anonymous

    Hi BETSY!!! Just finished Shred sisters!! adored it!!! Thankyou for writing about the closeness of sisters – it’s truly unlike any other relationship.

    Can I ask if you have sold TV or Film rights as yet??

    Marley Morrison

  11.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Thank you so much! Film rights are available.
    If you have interest, please contact me at
    Betsy@dclagency.com

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15 Responses

  1. Betsy! I’m neither an Amy nor an Ollie but I am a huge fan of Shred Sisters – just finished it. Brava!! Please be in touch.

    Best,

    Robin Kall

    robin@robinkall.com

  2. Betsy,

    Loved the Virtual “Book Club,” and I finally got on Tik Tok to listen to you. I followed your blog, but never had the inclination to do any writing from the prompts. Perhaps I should start.

    Can’t wait to see the movie based on you! Good luck on getting your screen play produced. It’s inevitable.

    I look forward to your next book of fiction, and I will go back and read your other books.

    Best Wishes,

    Karen Deutsch

  3. I’m an Ollie. I have a sister who is 8 years older than me & who just turned 80. She was everything my parents wanted, I the one who gave my family grief & concern. All through my childhood teachers, aunts & friends told me they couldn’t believe we came from the same parents, but honestly I’m way more interesting & my tumultuous life greatly entertained me & those who watched it unfold. All while my sister is still sitting on her hands being good.

    So glad I was gifted your book by a friend who’d just read it & wanted my opinion. I sent her a text this morning.

    Donna

    • I usually hear from the Amys of the world so thank you for this and the note. (I am Ollie and Amy.)

  4. Thanks so much for the note. xo

  5. haven’t read yet, with 2 younger sisters and the prevelance of opinions on the mental health of the nation these days, am considering buying 3 copies. fyi I am approaching middle of 8th decade. Youngest sister is avid reader and middle sister not so much. Always share books, can’t save them anymore as there are too heavy to move & prefer to downsize b4 I either die or have to downsize and relocate. Rambling. Saw author on Saturday morning news program. Will login after reading.

  6. Almost finished Shed Sisters. Remarkably true to life. Well written and expertly paced. I think we’ve all met Ollie’s in our lives – this examines this behavior through the lens of mental illness and makes it much easier to understand.

    • Very much appreciate this comment. I wrote it from the inside out and have also studied bi polar illness from the poets to the neurologists. Hope it rings true.

  7. PS: When will you be doing another virtual book club on Zoom for Shred Sisters?

  8. just finished reading Shred sisters. I didn’t want it to end. Please promise that you will write more books. You are a gifted writer and storyteller. This was the best book I’ve read in years.

  9. oh my goodness – THANK YOU!!

  10. Hi BETSY!!! Just finished Shred sisters!! adored it!!! Thankyou for writing about the closeness of sisters – it’s truly unlike any other relationship.

    Can I ask if you have sold TV or Film rights as yet??

    Marley Morrison

  11. Thank you so much! Film rights are available.
    If you have interest, please contact me at
    Betsy@dclagency.com

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